My roommate and I were talking about our relationships with our boyfriends, both whom live away from us while we live together at college. While talking, she said that there weren't many "great moments" anymore with them and that most of the time they fought.
I thought about it for a moment and then asked her what she meant by "great moments." Her response was that, to her, great moments were the fun times when they were doing something together besides just sitting or laying around.
But, what are great moments?
To me, in my relationship, great moments are where we can sit and lay around with each other;
(although, it is nice to do something once in awhile, I'll agree with my roommate.)
where he can show me what he's been doing on minecraft while I've been away;
where I get to be big spoon;
where talking about the future isn't scary, but something to look forward to;
where I get to try something new because of the relationship (even if, at first, I am a big cry baby because I'm no good at it. *cough cough* snowboarding *cough*);
where we fight but eventually work it out.
My "great moment" in my relationship?
I get to go home to someone who makes me happy and I think that is incredible.
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